Now for a more serious topic – safe words. Today my Master and I were fooling around (I will
save you the detail) and as I was about to climax my inner muscles ached so
painfully that I couldn’t finish.
Through instinct I pushed Master away and his character broke slightly
and asked if I was okay. He was still
inside of me and even this hurt, and he moved away completely to make me feel
more comfortable. I thanked him and he
clicked back into being Master. He punished
me with a few slaps and as he moved his hand to my neck I said, “Red, stop”. He heard and immediately pulled away and came
to lie beside me and hold me until I calmed down.
What happened in my view was because I was aching so much, I
couldn’t please him or myself and felt in adequate, both me and pet did. His punishment, because I had let my guard
down was too much and made me feel worse.
I explained this to him and he completely understood.
Anyway this not so fantastic experience led to a discussion
about the importance of safe-words. In
BDSM it is often not enough to just say stop.
This can be perceived as play, and not seriously. This led then to us talking about rape play
and all those scenarios when you might be doing the deed and say stop during
play, where you really don’t want them to.
Anyway, my sweets, just want you to know that it is
ridiculously important to have safe-words in place if you plan to try any sort
of BDSM! Ours are Red (fucking stop now),
Yellow (a little uneasy) and Green (it’s all okay). BDSM relies heavily on trust, these words
need to be clearly understood and obeyed!
Stay safe readers!
His trustingly,
Pet :) x
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